There are some different things you may want to consider when you’re ending a first date, especially if you want to get a second date or even get laid.
In this post, you’ll learn:
- Some tips to end first dates
- What to say to end a first date depending on the scenario
And so much more. Let’s jump into it.
How To End A First Date
The answer to this comes down to these questions: what is your end goal on your date? What are you there for? What’s your purpose?
Do you want a relationship? A second date? No more dates? Or did you want to take her home?
The purpose of your date is going to change how you end it. Let’s call this your endgame.
You can try the following:
#1. If you want a second date or maybe a relationship, you’re already thinking about it maybe a little too early, I think. But if you want that, then just end it on a simple note.
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Just wish her a good night. That’s pretty much it. Then follow up within a few days to set up the second date.
If you want to, you can also try for a kiss. It’s completely unnecessary, but it is a good way to take the date somewhere and to establish the nature of your date.
This means that you’re showing that it’s a romantic thing instead of a platonic or a friendship thing, and that’s always good.
But be careful, because sometimes you can also kill sexual tension with that. And that can be bad.
#2. If you don’t care to see her because you didn’t feel any chemistry, or you got Jabba the Hutt instead of Princess Leia because she doesn’t look like her online pictures, then try this:
Basically, you can end it the same way as if you want a second date or a relationship. End it on a positive note, wish her a good night, and off you go.
#3. If you want to get laid, pretty much the same, except now you’re going to invite her home.
This is really simple. It can be a very casual invite. You don’t actually have to have an excuse.
You don’t have to invite her home to watch cat videos or anything like that, but you can ask her for a drink, or you can just say, “hey, let’s go back to my place”.
Obviously, in this case, if she says yes, then you’re not ending your date, you’re going to continue it on at your place and see where it goes.
However, if she says she has a huge pile of homework at home and she just can’t go home with you, in that case, that’s where you’re going to end the date.
You’re just going to wish her a good night and then try following up within a few days.
For more info on how to have a great first date, check out this post.
The way you’re going to end a first date will depend on the purpose of it. Here are some common scenarios:
- If you want a second date or maybe a relationship, end it on a simple note and then follow up within a few days to set up the second date. You could try going in for a kiss as well
- If you don’t care to see her because you didn’t feel any chemistry, end it on a positive note, wish her a good night, and leave it at that
- If you want to get laid, you need to casually invite her home by asking her for a drink or saying something like “hey, let’s go back to my place”
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