How To Know If A First Date Went Well?

How to know if a first date went well?

The first thing to address here is that far too many guys don’t know what a sign looks like.

They think if a girl is flicking her hair or flirting, that’s a sign that she likes him. However, the real signs are much more obvious and don’t require so much interpretation or projection.

If she likes you, you will know that she likes you.

In this post, you’ll learn:

  • The obvious signs that a first date went well
  • What are the green flags on first dates

And a lot more. Keep reading to find out:

How To Know If A First Date Went Well?

Here are 10 signs to know that your first date went well, in no particular order:

  1. She texts you afterwards
  2. While you’re still on the date, she said she had a great time
  3. She replies to your text message after the first date and agrees to go on a second date
  4. She shows up to your second date
  5. She goes home with you
  6. Further evidence, she has sex with you
  7. You go for a kiss and she reciprocates
  8. You make physical contact and she doesn’t recoil like a snake
  9. She stays for the full date and she doesn’t leave early
  10.  When the date is over, she actually invites you to go out with her friends or do something else

So, how do you know if a girl enjoyed the first date?

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Basically, look at her behavior. It’s all about the behavior, not about what people say.

Yes, I did include something about her expressing her enjoyment of the date. But honestly, that’s more of a very minor sign.

As long as she comes back out on another date with you, she goes home with you, she kisses you or she sleeps with you, you’ll know that she likes you and that the first date went well.


Now, here are some common questions about how to know if a first date went well:

What are the green flags on a first date?

The green flags on a first date include strong eye contact, lots of smiling, a kiss being reciprocated, and a girl agreeing to go on a second date.

Should I feel a spark on the first date?

Feeling a spark on the first date is not actually necessary.

As a man, it’s up to you to make something out of the date and decide where you want to take it.

The girl you’re out with might be shy, she may not know how to express herself, so it’s up to you to bring that out in her if you want to have a good time.

For more info on first dates, check out this post.


You need to remember that to know if a first date went well, it’s all about paying attention to her behavior and some obvious signs such as:

  • She texts you afterwards
  • She says she is having a great time during the date
  • She agrees to go on a second date
  • She shows up to your second date
  • She goes home with you
  • She has sex with you
  • She reciprocates if you go in for a kiss 
  • She’s into your physical contact
  • She doesn’t leave early on your date
  • She invites you to do something else after the date’s done 

If you have any questions or comments, leave them below.

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